HI-HO SILVER: My thoughts on marriage

You might have guessed from the title, but just in case,

 be prepared for horse analogies.

 Just saying.

I had a video pop up in my Facebook memories today, 

& it got me thinking how marriage is like a team of horses, 

aside from the obvious that they & you are linked together.

But if you think of pulling a load, up a moderate incline, 

not even barefoot in the snow both ways, 

if you both aren't working together, it just ain't gonna work. 

I don't care who you are.

This does happen to be an example of in the snow, but that's just a challenge in life.

When you watch the video,

 it takes the pair a few tries to get started together,

 but they do 

& they are successful!

With the help of their farmer,

 talking to 'em,

 telling to come back or move on,

 they make it to the top.

This is my garage door. 

& if you haven't noticed, 

there is some kind of weird crack between the frame & whatever the other part is called.

We, Mr D & I, 

noticed that some weeks back after arriving home.

& our conversation went something like this----->

me: There appears to be a crack

him: Yes, I noticed that last week

me: well, maybe we should do something about it?

him: some spray foam would fix it

me: That's easy. I can get some the next time I'm out.

(& I do)

& that picture was taken tonight.

It's actually become a friendly joke.

Because that crack is pretty much our entire relationship.

Could I find a step stool & spray the darn foam?

Easily.

 I've become pretty handy at fixing stuff since getting married.

This next video, sums up what happens when 

you don't pull together 

& the train wreck that ensues.

Surrounded by people who care about them, 

everybody comes out ok, though. 

TEAMWORK MAKES THE DREAM WORK

*WARNING* 

this video will make you want to cover your eyes & hide.

I promise, promise 

everybody gets up & walks away just fine.

It's tense.

It's scary.

IT'S HORRIBLE TO WATCH

Imagine what it must have been like to go through.